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Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?

10.06.2025 10:18

Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?

I would not get uncomfortable when my friends thought my sisters were ‘hot’ as you put it, I just got used to it. Besides, my sisters were two years older than I was.

It depends. If you’re a guy and your girlfriend thinks your brother is hot, well maybe.

It didn’t help that my sisters had been modelling since age 15. A lot of my pals and guys in school had crushes on them.

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The only times I would feel uncomfortable was when I heard one of them talking about them in a way I did not like, if you know what I mean. Let’s use the word sensual. As their younger brother, I did not like to hear talk like that about them and would let the guy know.

I got a lot of, “Man you’re a lucky guy to have sisters like that!” from my friends. I didn’t understand that line. Never have I said that to a a pal who had a sister. “Wow you’re lucky to have her.” That wouldn’t make sense to me. A sister is a sister.

You’re leaving too many spaces in your question. What are YOU? A guy or a girl? What are your ages? I’m assuming you’re a teen or a little older.

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It was the other way for me. As the younger brother of two older sisters, twins, I would get that a lot of that from my pals and the guys at school.

I said this before. When a brother grows up with sisters through the years, he doesn’t see the changes others do. I saw my sisters differently than my pals did did. I saw them as my sisters, not hot girls. So why was I lucky? Granted, they were and are great sisters and we are very close. I am lucky in that way.

However if you’re his sister and your girlfriend thinks your brother is hot, well maybe your sisterly, protective instincts are kicking in or it makes you uncomfortable that maybe they might become a pair and you’ll be left out.

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However, I was never sure when some of the guys at school came over to my place to hang, if it was me they wanted to hang with or because they wanted to catch a glimpse of Lori and Tracy at home. As soon as I heard, “Are your sisters home?” I would know.

So I normally wouldn’t get uncomfortable when my friends would drool over my sisters. To the girls, younger guys having a crush on them was just puppy love.